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Mohandas Gandhi: Dear Customer who stuck up for his little brother, →
you thought I didn’t really notice. But I did. I wanted to high-five you.
Yesterday I had a pair of brothers in my store. One was maybe between 15-17. He was a wrestler at the local high school. Kind of tall, stocky and handsome. He had a younger brother, who was maybe about… -
things
weak spots: bad judgment of character, impatient, short-temper, and low-self esteem. word for cares to much for other people think… over analyze.
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for once I want to be the car crash
not always just the traffic jam
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Everyday I wake up and I expect to be disappointed just right before I get out of bed. Oh life, y u no fun?
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-mobius stripper
Reality is defined by perception. The reality that I see is not the reality that you see. If you choose to see the world as a gray, dismal place, that’s what you will see it as. However, happiness can be acheived if you merely choose to see the world as a good place. This is hard, but here’s a few tips on how to do that:
1) Forget the past. We can either learn from our past, or we can dwell on it. Once you learn from it, you don’t need to dwell on it anymore. So when things go wrong, figure out why and try to apply that to the now, forgetting what happened before.
2) Find the silver lining. Whether you see it or not, there’s a silver lining to everything. The future holds a myriad of possibilities, and to say that something is bad is futile - you don’t know what repercussions that event could have on the rest of the world. It’s impossible to think so vastly, or so randomly, or so far into the future.
3) Find a reason to live. You have reasons to live all around you. Make sure that you never lose sight of those things you like to do. The worst feeling in the world is to walk around aimlessly, not wanting to die, but not wanting to live either.
4) If life gives you lemons, be content with the lemons. Lemons are our friends. Does making lemons into lemonade really make it that much better? At least you have lemons. There are some people out there who would kill to have lemons. And who knows, you might get lucky and strike up a bargain with those people for what you want. (Native Americans traded gold for simple, practical things when the Europeans first arrived in the Americas. Their trash was another’s treasure.)
5) Express yourself. If your feelings build up too severely in depression, rage, etc., vent it. Find some way to explain it to someone else, or something of the sort. This node is actually my attempt at such a feat. I’m down in the dumps, but just writing this has made me realize that I can take it.
So remember… You are the master of the world, and that which you see is that which is, in your reality.
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just once
I wish the audience in this sitcom would just acknowledge their presence before this show gets canceled and then rebooted for a new season after an influx in dvd sales.
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looks
I don’t think I’m going to be going out as much as I usually do. My dad is giving me that look of disapproval as if I did something wrong. So I should probably listen to my instincts. I hate that I feel like a stranger at home sometimes, and when I’m out it feels different. It’s weird to feel like you belong somewhere else. Like maybe you are wanted somewhere else. Maybe they don’t see it, but that is how I feel. Like I just don’t belong. And even though that’s not true, it doesn’t change how I feel. I know I play some part of the blame, but that’s not problem. The problem is I don’t know where I am with my relationship with my parents. It’s something we just overlook and pretend there isn’t a problem at all. It’s weird. To feel like you have no place to ask for reassurance. To be afraid to ask for support. I’m naturally pushing people away, because I don’t really trust anyone. I’m scared of being hurt by the closest people to me, my family. And in the end, I try to replace that problem with anything. Whether is be friends or work, it’s not uncommon for people to use things or people as ‘substitutes’. We do it all the time.
